In September, AARP Segunda Juventud selected two Hispanic women to join editor Gabriela Zabalúa-Goddard and renowned fashion designer and colon cancer survivor Carmen Marc Valvo in a campaign to boost cancer awareness. The two women were chosen from a nationwide search and flown to New York City for a photo shoot for the winter issue of AARP Segunda Juventud, where they met Valvo and posed in some of his one-of-a-kind designs. In this online exclusive, they share with us the story of their diagnosis, how cancer has changed them, and what it was like meeting and working with Valvo.
Laura’s Story
Laura Torres had been healthy all her life. “I was fit as a horse. I never got sick,” says the 46-year-old former radio executive of Broad Run, Virginia. So when in 2007, during a routine gynecological visit, her doctor inquired about blood found in her stool, Torres told her she had chalked it up to harmless hemorrhoids. She was wrong. A colonoscopy revealed a significant mass in her colon. She had stage 4 cancer and it was spreading to her liver. Torres was in disbelief. Her first visit to an oncologist gave her little hope.
“The doctor told me to max out my credit cards and go fishing, giving me a year to live, two tops,” she recalls. She refused to believe the grim prognosis and sought a second opinion. “A new doctor told me 1 in 5,000 [in colon cancer cases] can go into remission, and that was all the hope I needed. We would try to slow the progression.”
And that she did—at whatever the cost. She’s endured extensive chemotherapy, radiation treatments, and battles with her insurance company—all to prolong her life using any medical treatment possible. “Each day is a blessing. There’s always the chance it will go into remission,” says Torres.
Through it all, she shows no signs of slowing down. “Meeting Carmen Marc Valvo is another reason for hope. He’s been able to give back through his celebrity. Through my support groups and my church, I want to give back, too. My first words to friends who ask how they can help are: ‘Get tested for colon cancer.’ It’s a secret killer.”
Hope’s Story
Hope Herrera, 61, couldn’t talk her way out of a colonoscopy any further. A new doctor refused to accept the San Jose, California, native’s anxious excuses and in July 2007, after Herrera complained of fatigue and the doctor found blood in her stool, scheduled the procedure. The colonoscopy revealed stage 3 cancer.
Herrera underwent immediate surgery to remove half her colon, but complications arose and she battled a bout of post-operative pneumonia along with other surgery-related problems. Fortunately, she recovered, and subsequent chemotherapy has checked the spread of the disease. “I feel blessed. I don’t know why I am so lucky,” says Herrera. Today she cautiously admits she’s in remission. “The doctor says everything is looking good,” she says.
The diagnosis had a profound impact on her life. “Before, I was a worrywart. All the kids’ problems would follow me,” says the mother of five, grandmother of 12, and great grandmother of five. “Now I am more at peace and am learning to think first of myself.” For Herrera, that means changes in her diet and regular visits to her doctor to make sure things are on track and the cancer hasn’t returned. She’s also making sure her kids are vigilant about cancer screenings and says she’s constantly on them to share their medical history with their respective doctors, since they are considered high-risk due to multiple family cases of cancer.
That’s why she felt it was important to work with Valvo and AARP Segunda Juventud to help boost colon cancer education. “Carmen’s a survivor and wants people to be aware,” says Herrera “Who likes going around saying they had colon cancer? I take my hat off to him.”